Now, I don't mind asking womyn out, I don't mind getting shot

down because, hey, you can't expect everyone to like you from instant one, though this is my ego's day off and normally I'd never say I have been shot down. I don't mind having to get the guts up to make the first move, the introductory ice breaker, the risk, though it is a chore. All that said, there's nothing more attractive, there is no more a greater turn on than having a girl come up and ask me out. Could there be anything more attractive than knowing someone is attracted to you?

Womyn always want to have it both ways, this politically correct

movement that isn't, (I don't blame 'em, if I had the chance I'd do it that way too) that they can open the door for themselves but still want you to do it for them, they can pay but they still want you to, they earn their position at work but will take the Affirmative Action if that's the only way through the glass ceiling. I get asked out from time to time, though usually it's a joke and they're surprised when I take 'em up on it. Julie offered to have me come over to her place and meet her fabulously georgeous single roommate, then she's all shocked, like: ``You're really going to come over?'' And I'm like, sure, why not, what sane man is going to decline an offer into a beautiful single woman's apartment? ``Diana just ran and hid in her room from embarrassment.'' ``Oh, I'm definitely coming over now.'' Diana being one of the many women out there that doesn't believe she's attractive, and is easily self-conscious about the smallest in idle observation about her. If the comment be good she's ashamed and says it isn't true, if it's negative then she glorifies it. People tell me Robyn does this too, but I haven't the time to verify as yet.

Disregarding that, I think womyn like to be in the position to decline,

to shoot down, the easy position of being desired. It isn't as if I want to be in this position myself, just that I enjoy the woman who takes the PC revolution and the insult `femminista' tag as a compliment, as a joke, and doesn't necessarily wear the pants in the family, but has a nice tight pair of blue jeans that make all the men bow down in worship. There is nothing more sexy that a bitch with attitude, yet knows the bounds between exerting desire and being an egotistical ass. There is nothing more sexy than a woman who knows how to wield power, and has power to wield. Money, status, fame be damned, just show me a woman with power over her own life and I'm good.