Stereotypes
We all have our stereotypes. Some are funny, others offensive. But why do stereotypes exist? Is it
only a racial thing? I don't want to try and answer why they exist -- just know that they do. If you
ask me if stereotypes are exclusively racial, then the answer is obviously no. But lets talk about the
racial ones. Below are a few of the stereotypes that I've encountered for different
ethnicities:
- Chinese - Cheap and loud.
- Korean - Smoke and drink all day
- Black - Big and lazy.
- Latino - Stupid and dirty.
These are only a small selection of stereotypes to give you an idea of what I'm talking about.
Although sometimes we may laugh at stereotypes(those about and not about our own race), we can't
deny that we use them. Sometimes, the act of using one is blatant, other times it is subtle. The
bottom line is, they exist and we use them. Stereotypes are a form of discrimination, and as long
as they exist, so will racism. I want to refer now to a personal experience that I've had regarding
stereotypes.
Quite often I encounter stereotypes on the basketball court. Not all are racial,
but many are. It is especially disconcerting when blacks, whites, or latinos think I can't play
just because I'm asian. I get the impression that they think no matter what, even if the asian
schools their ass, the asian still can't play. The asian got lucky. One time, I overheard a black
man telling his black teammate after he fouled me that I "wouldn't have made the bucket anyway."
That really pissed me off. From the beginning of the game I could tell that the black guy saw me as
a joke or something worse. I made a pretty good move and scored in his eye and he said that the only
reason I burned him was because I double dribbled, even though nobody agreed with him, not even his
own teammates. It's just really frustrating and flustering to know that you were dissed not because of
what you did or how you acted, but because of the color of your skin and what you look like. On the
same occasion, I learned that if you're not black and everyone else on your team is, you're never going
to touch the ball because they're simply never going to pass you the ball. Obviously this does not
apply to all black/white/latino or so-called "American" people, but it does apply to some. And it applies
often. After that experience I thought to myself about black people. Being the target of countless
occasions of racism, prejudice, and discrimination, how could they do the same thing to someone else,
knowing how frustrating it is? I just couldn't understand it. But anyways, I'm gonna go on to another story.
Alright, in the summer of 1996 I was enjoying my vacation in good ol' Hong Kong and one day my cousin and my
sister and I were at the supermarket waiting to use a phone (in Hong Kong the supermarkets hook up people with phone calls) and
finally it was our turn to use the phone. I had barely dialed the number when some white woman behind me started saying garbage
like "Would you stop playing with the phone" and "Come on, I'm in a hurry" and all this other dumb stuff. So I turned around,
looked at her, and then I totally chewed her out and showed her her place. haha yep, I was all "Damn if you were on the phone and
I was waiting for you I'd be waiting for you. Sheeit, I had to wait to use this phone, so why don't you wait?" And her dumbass was
all threatening to get the manager so I was like "Go ahead and get the manager, I don't give a hooty-nanny, and besides that, the
manager will say I'm right!" So then I finally finished my call and the stupid bitch was like "thank you" in a hella sarcastic-ass tone.
By then I was just like whatever and I just walked away. But this just goes to show how the woman thought that we were chinese and didn't
know how to speak english or even if we did, to resist. I'm pretty sure that she's used to barely raising her voice and receiving all kinds
of ass-kissing and so-called respect from chinese people. I mean, her face was in shock when I busted out with my U.S. fluent english. That
felt hella good, but the stereotype still exists in Hong Kong that whites are superior to chinese. It makes my stomach turn when I see
chinese folks totally act like they have no pride and kiss white-ass all day long. Ugh. And that, my friends, is another example of a stereotype.